tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7670518069832186621.post101237601903129111..comments2023-11-20T06:47:17.533-08:00Comments on Greetings: Naughty? Or Nice?Heather D. Watershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14076997705804858763noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7670518069832186621.post-34388855819540173852019-12-26T19:25:46.049-08:002019-12-26T19:25:46.049-08:00As we were heading back toward town, we were consi...As we were heading back toward town, we were considering dinner choices. I was strongly considering going to the restaurant in my skirt, rather than the pants. We had two conversations, my wife had a fear that I'd be targeted and harmed. (I work in a public place, I'm often recognized when we're in stores around town.) I was thinking, I didn't care. I need to be out! The second thing on my mind was that it had been hours since we'd left home and I was uncomfortable using a public restroom.<br /><br />Once we got to the restaurant, I had my jacket open and it was pretty obvious what was under my lilac top. One nice thing about that Chinese restaurant is that I think there may be an Asian transwoman working there.<br /><br />I agree With every step, it gets easier.Heather D. Watershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14076997705804858763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7670518069832186621.post-28604771684179188742019-12-26T07:25:31.516-08:002019-12-26T07:25:31.516-08:00It is so nice to hear of someone starting to get o...It is so nice to hear of someone starting to get out while cross dressed. For me that is a wonderful thing but for my wife she does live in fear that bad things can happen if I am out while dressed. <br />I am also a very large guy, well over 6' and 250 lbs. Add in some heels and I am hard to miss. Nevertheless, I have not had any bad encounters when out and about. I mostly go to quiet bars and restaurants on slow nights. <br />In warmer weather I have taken to going out in semi-guy mode. I wear beige/nude pantyhose under shorts. I have gone out to dinner with my wife so attired and have had not issues.<br />I think every time we stretch the envelope a bit I gets easier the next time out.Pat Scaleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00148601231866277374noreply@blogger.com